Am I Autistic? And How Do I Know?

The quiz on this page is not diagnostic in nature and is intended for introspective use only. Language note: We honor both identity-first language (e.g., “autistic person”) and person-first language (e.g., “person with autism”). Please use what fits you.

Greetings #

A quick Google search reveals that “Autistic Test Free” is a top hit. Here at Balanced Life Solutions, we love tests; so we’re going to give you a free, one-of-a-kind test to help you reflectively prepare for a meaningful autism evaluation! It’s time for 20 Questions, y’all! 💜

1 You are the expert on your life: #

Why do you think you may be autistic? 🌱🌼∞

2 Autism is often genetic: #

Do you suspect or know that a relative is autistic, and if so, who? 🤨🧩🧬

3 Autism may heighten social and sensory perceptions simultaneously: #

Which aspects of sociosensorial life feel daunting, and how do you deal? 🤯🙏

E.G., You may notice everything, unable to filter out irrelevant details. 🔎 copyediting mark: change to lowercase

  • You may become overtaxed by verbal or communicational demands. 🔇🚫😴
  • Your cranial computer may crash due to a surplus of open tabs. 💻☹ 🟦 #BSOD! #HaveYouTriedUnpluggingItAndPluggingItBackInAgain?

4 Autists may coin neologisms for lack of better words or due to dysnomia: #

What are some nonvocabulary words that you have invented to convey your point? 💡

E.G., “Kerfluffle” 😾⚔️😾

What nouns do you frequently struggle to locate when speaking? ❓ ×20

E.G., “The, the-the…” 💭👉… 🌿… 💐… 🥦… 🤷… 🌳 “Tree!”

5 Social communication with allistics can be challenging: #

What aspects of socioemotional reciprocity are difficult for you? 🤝😊🤗

E.G., you may struggle to make and keep friends, preferring to be a loner. 🐢🏝️

  • Group conversations may go too fast, or others may ask you too many questions. ⏳💫
  • You may avoid initiating interactions at all costs. 🙀🏃
  • You might stare blankly, 📄 leaving folks wondering what you’re thinking. 🤔

6 Autists are often monotropic: #

How do you feel when there are competing demands or interruptions? ✋🥈🥉🚜

Do you become engrossed in a single task, losing touch with reality? (Hyperfocus) ☁️🌟

7 Autists may have hypersensitivities, hyposensitivities, or both: #

Which stimuli are so intense that they break your brain and make you recoil? 🔊😱🙉

Which stimuli feel underwhelming, 😒 and which feel entertaining or soothing? 🧶🖊️🖱️

Which stimuli could pound at your door all night without you ever noticing? 👊🚪🚫

- We best be hoping that the latter is not a cat burglar… 🐈🦹😂

8 Autists may repeat phrases or versions thereof (echolalia, scripting): #

What phrases or quotes do you say on a regular basis, and how do you say them? 📜🦇💬

Do these feel satisfying, or even compulsory, to say? 🗣️😌😥🙂

Do they help you to communicate when you don’t know what to say? 📝🦜🍘

- “Meow!” 😺

9 Repetitive behaviors are common for autists: #

What sorts of behaviors do you engage in over and over again? 🔁

Can you pinpoint why? (x, y) How does this help or hurt you? 📙☠☮

E.G., You may eat the same food or rewatch an episode for comfort and familiarity. 🍕📺

  • You may gnaw on your bloody cuticles to smoothen them or calm your nerves. 💅🅰🚑
  • You may shake your leg rapidly when concentrating or rhythmically to mental music. 😣🦵𝄆
  • You may rock back and forth when feeling happy or to manage fatigue and stress. ↔️

10 Autists often have highly specific and fixed interests: #

What are your favorite things to do or think about? 🤩😍

How much time, money, or energy do you spend on these activities? ⏱️💸🔋

How does this tendency work to your advantage or your detriment? ✓🎰 ≠ ❌🚽

E.G., You may curiously research endless questions, thus missing out on sleep. 📖🧪🌌😫

  • You may hoard a growing collection of hundreds of Build-A-Bears. 🧸🐼🐻
  • You may have organized your entire life around your interest, doing it as a vocation. 🎸🎵

11 Autism can impact speech and communication: #

How do you communicate? What strategies do you use to communicate? 📬✉︎📮

E.G., You may experience stuttering or selective mutism under social pressure. 🎤😟😶

  • You may be pedantically verbose about your special interests. 🤓 R-O, Red run-on sentence copyediting mark R-O copyediting mark: add one space copyediting mark: delete
  • You may speak in a disorganized or tangential manner. 😵‍💫 Frag, Red sentence fragment copyediting mark Frag copyediting mark: insertion caret copyediting mark: change order (transpose)
  • You may often pause for a long time when trying to communicate in a loud room. 📢 ⏸️ 🥶
  • You may use alternative communications such as writing, pictures, or signs. 📓🖍️📱📷👌

12 Autists often experience social anxiety: #

How do you perceive yourself socially? Face with peeking eye emoji A yellow face with one eye visible while the other is partially covered by a hand peeking through fingers.

How have bullying or exclusion impacted you? 😢😠🙄

How does your social anxiety manifest, and in which contexts? 😰

E.G., You may fear judgment, embarrassment, rejection, or appearing anxious. 😳

  • You may painstakingly rehearse how to interject or interrupt. ✍️✏️📋
  • You may guess at hidden rules for social survival and sense-making. 📏⚖️

13 It is common to have multiple conditions when you already have one: #

Do you have other conditions besides suspected or self-diagnosed autism? +

How do these resemble, exacerbate, complement, differ from, or interact with each other? 🥚🥣

E.G., Conditions that commonly concur with autism include, but are not limited to:

  • Ehlers Danlos Syndrome; Postural Orthostatic Tachycardia Syndrome;
  • Mast Cell Activation Syndrome; ADHD; OCD; anxiety; depression; complex trauma;
  • Epilepsy; intellectual disability; learning disability; giftedness; congenital blindness.

14 Autists often express and experience emotions in different ways: #

Would you describe yourself as a thinker or a feeler? ☯

Do you overintellectualize your feelings, 👓 or are they overwhelmingly intense? 🔆

Do you struggle to explain or understand your feelings? (Alexithymia) 📦

Do you gather exhaustive data to decide how someone is feeling? (Analytical empathizer) 🖩

Do you absorb others’ emotions just by entering the room? (Dysregulated empath) 🧽

15 Meltdowns and shutdowns are common reactions to overstimulation: #

Do you have meltdowns or shutdowns? What feelings and situations trigger them? 🎛️🎚️🌡️

Do you cry, yell, growl, panic, flail, or outburst? 💥

Do you go quiet, block out light and noise, rock back and forth, and feel burned out? 🧠🌫️

Do you wait until you get home to let it happen, or are you unable to delay the process? 💩

16 Executive dysfunction often impacts autists: #

How do you handle changes in plans and expectations? 😲

How do you react to surprise visitors? 🐈🦹 How long do you take to readjust? 🐌⚡

Do you struggle to think ahead, 🔭 or are you constantly preparing for what’s next? 📅

Are you a neat freak 🧼 or a hot mess? 🌀

Do you know what the date is today? 🎂 Are you chronically late or compulsively early? 🕕

Do you remember every detail vividly, 🧐 or do you lose and forget many things? 🔦

Do you get distracted or tune others out when they try to show you something? 🐿️😕

Are you still paying attention? 🤣

17 Autists may experience tone, inflection, and underlying meaning differently: #

Do you communicate animatedly 🎶 or in a steady tone, 😑 or does it depend? %

Are you concisely factual 📊 or extensively elaborate? 📚

Are you sensitive to criticism and offending others, 😭 or are you blunt and direct? 🚀

Do you feel like folks expect you to read their minds, or like they can already read yours? 🔮

18 Affect, gestures, and eye contact differ in autists: #

Do you make emphatic or rigid gestures, or none at all? 👋🙌🖕🤭🙅‍♂️

Do you make intense eye contact, or does your soul avoid being stared into? Face with laser beam eyes, red light flare 🙈

Do you need to face away from someone when speaking or listening? 😆/😖

Do you make cartoon faces, show strong emotions, or stay neutral? 🤪😜😔😐

19 Masking and compensation can be sneaky: #

How do you suppress, internalize, or camouflage your neurodivergent traits? 🦎🚙

Does social sense-making regularly demand your deliberate cognitive effort? 🧠🍟🥄

How do you manage in a society that is structured neurotypically? 🎭🏙️🏗️

How do you accommodate and honor your unique needs? 😎 🎧 🌻 ♿ 🧑🏿‍🦯

20 The classic counseling question! 🥁 #

So, when did you start feeling this way? 🧑🏽‍⚕️🛋️

How would you describe your ways of thinking and feeling differently than others? 🕵️⚂

How do your challenges impact your functioning? ⏰🚿🏫💁♀️🛒🍸

How would you feel if you found out that you’re autistic? 🧠🌈♾️😮🥳

Or, how would you feel if your hunch was close, but something else? 🔬🚭🎁✨😊

SCORING: 🎼 #

If you lost count of everything that resonated with you, ✌️ then congratulations! 💯 You sure could use a formal assessment. 👍 Good thing we offer that here at BLS! 😉 😼

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